I know I'm not supposed to be sad at a wedding but it's not everyday that your daughter moves to Pueto Rico. San Juan, in fact, for the next 3-5 years because of her husband's job. I like adventure and new things, but I also like to see and hug and talk to my daughter. I will miss her.
Before Mary got married on the 11th, Cate graduated from high school on May 5th. She had a special graduation ceremony in Winston Salem with FHE. There were six girls graduating which made for an intimate ceremony. I liked everything about it, from my husband saying a few words about Cate, to the rose she presented me, to the speaker and especially the slide show. A few more tears fell as pictures of Cate as a baby, toddler and finally young woman appeared. I am losing another daughter, I feel. This time to college as she prepares to do the things God has in store for her. The changes in life are hard at times, good and proper, but still hard.
May 15th the hardest thing happened. My husband's father died. Granddaddy Gordon had been sick for five weeks and after a while we knew he didn't have much time left. But it was still hard to lose him. We had seen him the day before and he still knew Hart and asked for me. I held his hand as he struggled to keep awake and to lay still. It was painful watching him. Hart stroked his father's head and spoke comforting words to him. We told him we loved him. The next day Hart's sister called and said that her dad was gone, gone home to heaven. Relief but sadness overwhelmed us. It is so hard to say good-by.
May 5th, May 11th and May 15th are dates I will never forget. These days are ingrained in my memory forever. The days I said good-by to a part of my life. I know it will never be the same. While my tears have dried, I am trying not to be sad. How can I be when it is all good.